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Friday, January 2, 2015

Clothes basket, repairs, peeing babies, a reminder and a happy end



What a strange day. After my Christmas pleasure spanking I am suddenly right back in the non-fun spanking experience; and so much faster than I had imagined. Hubby almost fell in the corridor this morning because I had forgotten about a clothes basket in the way (recurring topic here). He was not amused at all and I would give myself a spanking because I tried more to talk my way out of it than anything else. The plain truth was that I simply forgot this darn thing there. 


Later this morning, Tilda and I had a short stop in a nearby car service station. I did not know anybody there and only wanted them to exchange a light bulb in one of the front headlamps. They were not exactly unfriendly, but I know that I would be spanked for rolling my eyes this way. So, those guys felt pretty superior because they knew how to do that and I was the little dumb girl who didn’t. There are  moments when I can shrug such things off, but today this annoyed me. Too bad, I had no clever reply at hand, because they did not actually say a word and I wanted this light to be done quickly (and then, in the car, when you drive on, all the intelligent reactions come ... too late!). 

Nevertheless, it makes me angry. Not much, just a little, so that I think about reviving my list of prejudices from last year again. Don’t know yet. But I was so glad that my baby did not want milk right in that moment, because that would surely have caused more eye-rolling. Hmmm, coming to think of it, it would have been fun to provoke them a little. Missed a chance. Up to that moment the day was not the best, but we had a real fun time right ahead!
Afterwards we quickly went to our first real baby class, which is called PEKiP here, and is meant to be similar to ‘Baby and me’ activities. My mother-in-law says that she knows the term as an English one too, so, maybe this sounds familiar. It has been awesome and I got new ideas of what Tilda and I could do together at home. I mean, I do spend a lot of time actively with Tilda, but often enough she is just around, we talk and I do household, then. So, activities and attention for 90 minutes are a real lot of quality time. And if you like naked babies peeing on the soft yoga mats, this is the right place to be!
So, this turned our day to the best. ... And back home I almost fell over this darn clothes basket, because either I or hubby had moved it to another spot. You can guess who. Now, Friday late evening, we are all safe again, because I put the basket where it belongs. And hubby has returned home from work. Dinner was ready, I told him about our day before he could tell anything; intentionally … to distract him a little from the clothes basket affair. But since doing that is an offence in itself, I also told him that I intended to make him more lenient tonight, as I am not too eager to be punished. :) It is not manipulating if you state that you manipulate, is it!

For hubby this was funny, and he has been in a good mood, too. Still, he promised that I would not get away with this stupid clothes basket affair. But he really can be pettish just because I sent him almost flying, don’t you agree?! (ok, I really am sorry and was not trying to avoid this, just was a little afraid of it).  In  a way, the clothes basket was just the opportunity to get started again. Seems we are back in business. 

So, I went over his lap and it was not fun. Hubby mentioned that we would have a slow start with discipline, and he paid close attention to see how I would cope. It wasn't harsh or too much, rather like more severe maintenance with a few too stingy swats, and my tears came only when he said I should imagine what could happen if I tripped over something ... while carrying our baby. This hurt more than anything else.

 As I have learned tonight, the more lenient times are definitely coming to an end.We only had a short time to talk afterwards, but this alone gave me the feeling that we have come closer again, which makes me so much happier. There was no time to tell hubby yet, but I am actually very glad that I am held accountable again in this way.

12 comments :

  1. Oh, the illusive laundry basket--I swear it moves on its own! Well, it seems you both are right back in the swing of things (har har) :) And I know all too well what it's like to come up with a great comeback...one hour later. Frustrating!

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    1. Hi Autumn, you are right, clothes baskets have their own lives for sure. There can be no other explanation for where I find them! I do not even know why I put this silly thing where I almost fell over it, but I am glad that normal life has returned a little more. I feel much better with this kind of discipline than without, and hubby feels better with it too. Just the right sort of comeback for us!

      hugs

      Nina

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  2. Glad it's all working out for you two, excuse me, you three - can't forget Tilda.

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    1. Hi Sunny, we are glad about this too. All we have to figure out next is how to do ttwd quietly, so that Tilda won’t notice anything once she is old enough.

      hugs

      Nina

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  3. Hi Nina, glad it seems you too are getting back to normal Dd wise. I understand being apprehensive about spanking for punishment after so long without spanking. It is difficult and it hurts more when you haven't been spanked for a while. I'm glad he took it a little easier.

    Being held accountable is a good feeling isn't it, and makes you feel cared for.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz, we are glad that we have this piece of ttwd back. I mean, other forms of discipline worked too, but they did not always leave me at peace the way a spanking does. Maybe it is the reconnection that we have with this. I am also glad that hubby did not punish me harshly and that we will go step by step again. And you are absolutely right, being held accountable is awesome, I feel so much more cared for than before. I know that hubby always cares for us, but the feeling is just more intense again. Wow!

      hugs

      Nina

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  4. Hi Nina, It had to happen sometime! There was only so long you could get away with the pregnancy/ new baby excuse. better start being good now.;)
    Love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi Jan, you are absolutely right, it had to happen sooner or later. Although I had not expected this sort of spanking this early. But I am so glad that it did happen, because I do feel better than before (and can still sit, too). So, I really will better be good. ;)

      hugs

      Nina

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  5. Sounds stupid but I think this will make you feel even more secure now. And you had to start somewhere and a clothes basket is not that bad really, so a good lenient place to start I suppose!

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    1. Hi Janey, you are absolutely right, I do feel more secure and more cared for again. And the clothes basket was a good reason to start this too. So, for me it is a very positive comeback through and through.

      hugs

      Nina

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  6. Dang Nina...blasted laundry seems to get most of us one way or another. At least hubby started you back easy. Happy to hear you had a fun time at the PEKiP class...always helps to have other mothers and babies around the same age. Oh and regarding the mechanics...just remember...you are paying them for their expertise...if you could do their job, you wouldn't need them so just ignore their superior attitude...actually shows how immature they are.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, laundry can cause so much annoyance for both of us. I like doing it, but uhm, there are side-effects, such as me putting the folded laundry in the wrong places, or putting clothes baskets in the way. But I am glad that it was only a rather small nuisance that got hubby started and I do admit that I deserved the spanking too. And I tend to forget less after such a spanking. :) PEKiP is really cool, very relaxed for the moms and babies and so much fun. I am looking forward to going there again next Friday, because it is a lovely feel-good time for us.
      Oh yes, the mechanics were morons, which I am sorry to say (rolling my eyes now :) ), and you are definitely right, they were so immature and they will not see me again there, for sure. But they could not ruin anything, because we had so much fun afterwards! :)

      hugs

      Nina

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