tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post3411996719652918806..comments2022-05-24T21:03:49.936-07:00Comments on awesome feeling of love: After Midnight Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-67515343080518131592014-11-03T09:09:39.575-08:002014-11-03T09:09:39.575-08:00Hi Leigh, thank you!
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NinaHi Leigh, thank you!<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Ninastay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-65485302394214130332014-11-03T06:20:38.632-08:002014-11-03T06:20:38.632-08:00BeautifulBeautifulAimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-13825770077558722552014-11-03T05:11:23.170-08:002014-11-03T05:11:23.170-08:00Hi River, you are absolutely right, if anything, o...Hi River, you are absolutely right, if anything, our connection has become closer, though also differently, because there is so much more we are responsible for. Tilda is in bed for nursing, and changing diapers, but she's not sleeping in ours, because I am scared of something happening while we sleep, such as her being covered by one of the blankets. I know that usually parents do know that their baby is with them, but I don't really trust myself here, although the experience sounds lovely. <br />Being a parent is something new and exciting, and I guess/hope we will grow into it and get more routine as time passes. I have been teased because of thinking about everything, micromanaging every bit of Tilda. Where experienced moms go with their newborn and carry not much more than a few baby wipes and an extra diaper, I still want my full bag of baby equipment for all emergencies (and I love it). <br />Oh, the brothers and sisters are what we would love for Tilda and as a family. I mean, not right now, please, I really need a little more time before I could possibly start again, but then again, emotionally I am more than ready (not physically though!).<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Ninastay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-13173823508470768912014-11-03T04:56:05.822-08:002014-11-03T04:56:05.822-08:00Hi DF, I can only agree, we had a (very) few night...Hi DF, I can only agree, we had a (very) few nights when Mathilda was crying more than sleeping, and although hubby sleeps through most times, he has stepped up and helped too. Bit by bit the daily routine has to return to us now, so I'll see how well we cope then, when there is a bad night. Since Mathilda is with me most of the time, I also want hubby and Tilda to have time together, and I can only agree, this time will be over too quick. How fast time flies these days is obvious for me when I think back to my pregnancy. There have been days which felt long then, but all in all it feels as if it was over in no time. ... I am almost ready for more of it :-D ... almost!<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Ninastay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-90553498986758111592014-11-02T09:50:10.611-08:002014-11-02T09:50:10.611-08:00It is amazing to me how creating a human together ...It is amazing to me how creating a human together can deepen your love for your spouse so very much. It is just beyond words. I always had my babies in bed with me, it worked out really well for us. So glad for you that you get to experience motherhood, and marriage after children Nina! I hope your dream of brothers and sisters for Tilda comes true exactly as you want it to :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-25377824006397643322014-11-02T09:18:00.614-08:002014-11-02T09:18:00.614-08:00Those sweet moments in the night - not all will be...Those sweet moments in the night - not all will be so easy, but when they are, enjoy them. P would generally sleep through much of the fuss of night-time feeds, but when things got too hard, he would step up and help with things he could do, like changing nappies and rocking them to sleep. Breastfeeding has the ease of never having to leave the bedroom, but it is exclusive to mum. I'm glad dad has these precious moments with Tilda, they pass so quickly (in retrospect!)<br />hugs<br />DFDelFontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877826634987802545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-42574417050669423562014-11-02T09:06:37.061-08:002014-11-02T09:06:37.061-08:00Thank you Roz, I loved this night too and I am gla...Thank you Roz, I loved this night too and I am glad that I found the energy to write it down, as it really was a precious moment. Glad that you like it!<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Nina<br />stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-64454535413233934132014-11-02T09:06:05.774-08:002014-11-02T09:06:05.774-08:00Thank you Janey, I am glad that you enjoyed it. Th...Thank you Janey, I am glad that you enjoyed it. This was one of those moments that I’d love to last a little longer, but they don’t , so we have to make more of them! :) <br />During the week it is usually just like you described it, hubby wouldn’t wake up (most times) and I do everything concerning Tilda, which is fine, because hubby needs his rest too. Weekends are better for us, because we have more time to rest and hubby enjoys being up with us at night (now and then). <br /><br />At the moment the crib is still a few feet away from our bed. I like the idea of having Mathilda right next to me, but I am a little afraid that I’d somehow bump into the crib while sleeping, or my blanket ends up partly in it. It would probably never happen, but I don’t feel safe enough with that yet, though I’d love to have her close by and never leave my bed at night. Sounds very tempting!<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Nina<br />stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-58047363130738805482014-11-01T22:07:51.932-07:002014-11-01T22:07:51.932-07:00Aww, such a beautiful, sweet moment Nina, this ma...Aww, such a beautiful, sweet moment Nina, this made me smile. Enjoy these precious times :)<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-56410023291521970382014-11-01T16:32:28.015-07:002014-11-01T16:32:28.015-07:00Oh so beautiful, I can almost feel it again!
H har...Oh so beautiful, I can almost feel it again!<br />H hardly ever woke up from the cry of our babies, I think it's because he knew I would, if he had been on his own with them I'm sure he would have been ok.<br />I used to have baby's crib right up against our bed. I learnt to eventually lean over and pick him up, feed him, change him and put him back into his bed without ever leaving my own. There are benefits to breast feeding!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-67633461426691802472014-11-01T10:43:30.137-07:002014-11-01T10:43:30.137-07:00Hello Anon, I think you are absolutely right, ther...Hello Anon, I think you are absolutely right, there are too many things that I have already forgotten, and getting enough sleep proves a kind of challenge (and without enough sleep I forget everything!), so I do get you sooo well. Five children sounds awesome, I know this is hard work, but I'd love doing it all for a big family. Well, Mathilda absolutely needs brothers and sisters, we think. :) You are right, even those decisions and moments we are not aware of any longer, do shape us. Maybe even more than we could ever imagine, because we according to what we experienced, from deep within. Thank you for commenting, I appreciate this and will go on writing down some of our moments. It is a joyful experience to do. Thanks,<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Nina<br /><br />stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3305886242963874120.post-53689419164206536152014-11-01T10:28:44.431-07:002014-11-01T10:28:44.431-07:00Enjoy these beautiful moments! Good job recording...Enjoy these beautiful moments! Good job recording them. I remember very few from my five children because of sleep deprivation. You think you could never forget, but you do. <br /><br />Biochemistry wins, unfortunately. But even when we do forget, the moments shape our souls forever. <br /><br />Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com